Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Monday, December 13, 2010
Saturday, October 16, 2010
S.O.S. ARE U OUT THERE?
As much as I enjoy the relaxing vibrations of being at home, today I visualize going for a ride through the countryside, watching birds fly, and seeing the corn and wheat blowing in the breeze…
As much as I enjoy the relaxing vibrations of being at home, I visualize a handsome, fine, kind, intellectually astute gentleman, swooping me up, and taking me on a long country drive…
As much as I enjoy the relaxing vibrations of being at home, I desire to dance in the sunshine with a willing friend who also enjoys the countryside, and doesn’t mind sharing time with me…
As much as I enjoy the relaxing vibrations of being at home,
Today I visualize not being home alone…
S.O.S. ARE U OUT THERE?
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Campatibility: The likelihood of Success or Failure
When seeking heart, lung, liver and other transplants,
it is necessary the donor is compatible, on three levels of matching,
are the procedure is likely to fail.
When seeking a life partner, friend, or mate,
When seeking a life partner, friend, or mate,
it is necessary to align oneself with someone who is compatible
to one’s ideal/need of a giving, supportive, contributor of thoughts,
ideas, and spirituality, are the alliance is likely to fail.
Physical attraction is not a viable conduit for measuring compatibility and longevity.
Physical attraction is not a viable conduit for measuring compatibility and longevity.
Search beyond the seen for sustainable compatibility and success.
Searching requires patience.
Searching requires patience.
Friday, July 30, 2010
"Restore Her", by Louis Maye's
Copyright © 2010 Louis Maye
I have been contemplating ...for quite some time...
that which I am about to say,as for men it is a somewhat delicate subject.
As a young man... I hypothesized...that if one wanted to destroy a group of people...tribe ...or nation of people...then ones primary point of attack ...should be the woman...or women. And a little later in life...that which I am about to say,as for men it is a somewhat delicate subject.
I came across the infamous Willy Lynch letter...which was a confirmation of my past ponderances .
When I returned to New Jersey...in 2002 or 3...I began to hear some disturbing things brothers .
Things like "the woman is your enemy...you don't help the woman...and this from the mouths ...of some self proclaimed righteous ...educated brothers.
In conversation ...just the other day ...I was trying...to impress upon a brother ...the necessity...the need...to lift ...the woman...and restore her to her former station. The basis of my theory ,is that as a people...we must rise to a higher level...but in order to do so ...we must rise as a people...as a whole.
Another point...is ...that as a religious or spiritual person...one has a belief...in a god...a creator...,and along with such a belief one has to know...that all are his...and created for a purpose.
That woman...caught up ...the one you call trick ...ho ....whore...prostitute... chicken head ...bitch.
She is God's creation...His Word made manifest...as are we all. Instead of dropping her on her knees
to service you...you should be lifting her up.
These women no doubt suffer from low self esteem...she is demoralized...and in a state of denial...as shame has so ravaged her mind. Brothers it is our duty...to lift her up...not kick her...when she is down.
We must be the ones to restore her to her rightful station. I have heard it said ...,as no doubt you have also ...the saying ..."you can't turn a ho into a house wife".
Question: have you ever heard of Mary Magdalen...who upon meeting Christ...ceased being a prostitute...and followed Him ...the rest of His life...and her own ...never to return to her former life.
So...although I may not be able to...as is said by men "change a ho into a house wife ...I know someone ...who did ...and can .
For any who may find offense with my diatribe ...get the over it...for the truth hurts no one except of course a liar ...and they that believe in the lie
to service you...you should be lifting her up.
These women no doubt suffer from low self esteem...she is demoralized...and in a state of denial...as shame has so ravaged her mind. Brothers it is our duty...to lift her up...not kick her...when she is down.
We must be the ones to restore her to her rightful station. I have heard it said ...,as no doubt you have also ...the saying ..."you can't turn a ho into a house wife".
Question: have you ever heard of Mary Magdalen...who upon meeting Christ...ceased being a prostitute...and followed Him ...the rest of His life...and her own ...never to return to her former life.
So...although I may not be able to...as is said by men "change a ho into a house wife ...I know someone ...who did ...and can .
For any who may find offense with my diatribe ...get the over it...for the truth hurts no one except of course a liar ...and they that believe in the lie
Friday, May 14, 2010
Q: Can You Truly Heal from a friendlationship break-up while enjoying rebounds with multiple Friends?
If the lost Friendlationship had been categorized as Marriage Material…
No! Not even the rebound of new friends nor the influx of good times with old friends will cause the rattling ache of a lost Friendlationship to dissipate... And yes in time the wound will heal, the pain will subside, and Healed people must move on, but like any wound that cuts real deep, the scar will always remain.
~Sista…
No! Not even the rebound of new friends nor the influx of good times with old friends will cause the rattling ache of a lost Friendlationship to dissipate... And yes in time the wound will heal, the pain will subside, and Healed people must move on, but like any wound that cuts real deep, the scar will always remain.
~Sista…
Friday, January 29, 2010
ALOHA…
Thirty days ago, I did not fully understand Facebook, and it’s phenomena, yet in these last 30 days, I have found classmates, school associates, friends, family members, folks from various places I’ve lived, and various churches I’ve attended. It’s been quite an experience. I logged in one morning, to learn a family member had passed just two hours prior to my log-in.
Today I checked my email, to find a note from another internet radio host. The note was titled “Is Facebook ruining relationships”. I though, “for sure this is a joke”, however, after speaking with my youngest son, I learn these things are reality…
“It’s just Facebook”, I said. My son assured me the allegations are true…
Folks are ending relationships, based on whom one befriends on Facebook.
Once explained, I began to understand why there were those who choose not to accept my invites, and others whom had, but later dropped me.
Wow I thought, folks really take this stuff seriously. I had no clue the reach and magnitude of Facebook… Whoever thought hello would mean good-bye. Perhaps we should all say, ALOHA…
Aloha: used as a greeting or to bid farewell
Monday, December 15, 2008
In My Heart Is Held Your Place
Precious the moment my eyes encountered yours
No photograph nor telephone could reveal this splendor before
For you are a wonder ones heart must encounter
A wonder to be adored.
Your spirit humbles the soul it meets
Nothing prepared me for this soulful treat
Cold and drizzly that February day
Yet in my soul it was April or May
For spring had sprung in my soul that day
Engraved were the letters of your name.
Shivering and cold, my face wore a grin
Expressing the warmth coming from within
You rescued me from that burial place
In more than just one way
My heart burst open, to hope again,
Believing what I pray
Who knew a solemn man would make me feel this way
I Thank You & I Think of You each and every day.
Perhaps someday you'll know
In my heart, is held your place.
Copyright (c) 2008 by KRD aka SistaSistaSister
No photograph nor telephone could reveal this splendor before
For you are a wonder ones heart must encounter
A wonder to be adored.
Your spirit humbles the soul it meets
Nothing prepared me for this soulful treat
Cold and drizzly that February day
Yet in my soul it was April or May
For spring had sprung in my soul that day
Engraved were the letters of your name.
Shivering and cold, my face wore a grin
Expressing the warmth coming from within
You rescued me from that burial place
In more than just one way
My heart burst open, to hope again,
Believing what I pray
Who knew a solemn man would make me feel this way
I Thank You & I Think of You each and every day.
Perhaps someday you'll know
In my heart, is held your place.
Copyright (c) 2008 by KRD aka SistaSistaSister
Saturday, November 22, 2008
THE KISS
No, It was not the first kiss, nor was it to be the last,
Yet it was THE KISS, that changed life’s path.
Paralyzed with awe and delight, the stars blanketed the night,
The moon gave her light.
In that moment all was right.
No, it was not the fist kiss, nor was it to be the last,
Yet it was THE KISS, that has gone unsurpassed.
How sweet was the nectar
How passionate was the press
Tongue and cheek, had new meaning
In sensations grasp.
No, it was not the first kiss,
Nor would it be the last,
Yet it was THE KISS,
For which memory would never forget.
Copyright (C) 2008 by KRD aka SistaSistaSister
Saturday, November 15, 2008
It Just Piss Me Off!
It just piss me off,
When you gear your heart up to love and be loved,
And the one you’re trying to love,
Is merely there for the loving.
It just piss me off,
To no end,
To know I began, and ended, another year alone,
And this time,
I had access, to a whole new world of men.
It just piss me off,
To sit at home, me on one end,
He’s at home on the other,
Roaming through site after site,
Seeking a potential husband or wife,
While we are going to dinner, and
Have meetings together, yet returning home,
Both lonely and alone.
It just piss me off,
When we can laugh and share,
Knowing the compatibility is there,
Me believing, we have optimum possibility.
It just piss me off,
To think, the reason we are not together,
Is Me,
I let the cat out the bag, and let it be known,
The doctor said, I need a heart transplant.
It just piss me off.
Copyright (c) 2008 by krd aka SistaSistaSister
When you gear your heart up to love and be loved,
And the one you’re trying to love,
Is merely there for the loving.
It just piss me off,
To no end,
To know I began, and ended, another year alone,
And this time,
I had access, to a whole new world of men.
It just piss me off,
To sit at home, me on one end,
He’s at home on the other,
Roaming through site after site,
Seeking a potential husband or wife,
While we are going to dinner, and
Have meetings together, yet returning home,
Both lonely and alone.
It just piss me off,
When we can laugh and share,
Knowing the compatibility is there,
Me believing, we have optimum possibility.
It just piss me off,
To think, the reason we are not together,
Is Me,
I let the cat out the bag, and let it be known,
The doctor said, I need a heart transplant.
It just piss me off.
Copyright (c) 2008 by krd aka SistaSistaSister
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Sometimes I Need______________?
Sometimes I need a loving embrace,
A strong hand, An Assertive voice and the touch of A man.
Sometimes I need the unity of family,
The inquisitive enthusiasm of a child, and the gathering of friends.
Sometimes I need an intelligent argument,
A bias decision, an ingenious ideal, and a kind word.
Sometimes I need laughter in the morning
Understanding in the afternoon, patience by evening,
and affection at night.
Sometimes I need to know, all will be alright.
Copyright (c) 2008 by krd aka SistaSistaSister
A strong hand, An Assertive voice and the touch of A man.
Sometimes I need the unity of family,
The inquisitive enthusiasm of a child, and the gathering of friends.
Sometimes I need an intelligent argument,
A bias decision, an ingenious ideal, and a kind word.
Sometimes I need laughter in the morning
Understanding in the afternoon, patience by evening,
and affection at night.
Sometimes I need to know, all will be alright.
Copyright (c) 2008 by krd aka SistaSistaSister
Monday, November 10, 2008
You May Find What You Seek
I can’t take credit,
For
My Eyes
My Lips
My Breast
My Belly
My Hips
My Derriere are My Thighs
Everything you see is by God’s design
Genetically engineered as he desired
So to know who I am, you must look inside
For inside is where the treasure lies
My Spirit
My Soul
My Intellect
Character and Pride
This is the figure you should measure Me by
You will find
I’m not
The Gold Digger
The Bitch
Or
The Diva
I’m just a Woman seeking her =equal=
If you need to classify
You will find Me under
Mother
Friend
Wife and Lover
Nurturer of your dreams
Acquaintance of your desires
Bearer of your love
The one with whom your heart can safely retire
Once you have admired God’s design desire
Look deeper to see
The content called Me
You may find, what you seek.
For
My Eyes
My Lips
My Breast
My Belly
My Hips
My Derriere are My Thighs
Everything you see is by God’s design
Genetically engineered as he desired
So to know who I am, you must look inside
For inside is where the treasure lies
My Spirit
My Soul
My Intellect
Character and Pride
This is the figure you should measure Me by
You will find
I’m not
The Gold Digger
The Bitch
Or
The Diva
I’m just a Woman seeking her =equal=
If you need to classify
You will find Me under
Mother
Friend
Wife and Lover
Nurturer of your dreams
Acquaintance of your desires
Bearer of your love
The one with whom your heart can safely retire
Once you have admired God’s design desire
Look deeper to see
The content called Me
You may find, what you seek.
Copyright (C) 2008 by (krd) SistaSistaSister
Monday, September 29, 2008
When She Woke
The sun had hit its noon day stride
Bills to be paid…
Baby changed
And still she lies
Wanting the dream to change.
A man…not men…
To call her name…rescuing her from the parade
Of passer by’ers…
On lookers
Seeking what they can find….
Free
Meetings without Conversation…
Sex without Expectation…
Relating without the Relationship
It was fun…..
Home to the family I must run
When she woke
To wipe her eyes
She felt the moisture between her thighs
The crime this time;
She thought … He cared.
But like all little boys with toys that don’t obey the rules of the game.
He didn’t leave it … As He found it… And She wares the shame
When the clinic door swang, and they called her name.
Then she woke,
Thank God it was just a dream..
Copyright (c) 2008 by (krd) SistaSistaSister
Bills to be paid…
Baby changed
And still she lies
Wanting the dream to change.
A man…not men…
To call her name…rescuing her from the parade
Of passer by’ers…
On lookers
Seeking what they can find….
Free
Meetings without Conversation…
Sex without Expectation…
Relating without the Relationship
It was fun…..
Home to the family I must run
When she woke
To wipe her eyes
She felt the moisture between her thighs
The crime this time;
She thought … He cared.
But like all little boys with toys that don’t obey the rules of the game.
He didn’t leave it … As He found it… And She wares the shame
When the clinic door swang, and they called her name.
Then she woke,
Thank God it was just a dream..
Copyright (c) 2008 by (krd) SistaSistaSister
Friday, September 26, 2008
Revolt, Revolt, Revolt!!!
Revolt, Revolt, Revolt … I scream
This thing is warring within me.
Alone forever, I thought, I wanted to be,
Tired of trying, being met with defeat.
Closed my mind, my heart, my eyes
To the possibility of any man loving me.
Then….He….
His is a psychedelic love
A kaleidoscope of fantasies
Acted out devoid of discreet are apology
His mystique tantalizes me
And when this brother speaks
The revolution starts in me.
Revolt, Revolt, Revolt… I scream
Don’t want to have these insecurities,
Of another man leaving me or me leaving he
So I disguise what I feel inside,
Not to be lifted up with hope or false pride.
Transformation has been, bitter-sweet,
A cyclone of pain and ecstasy
I tumble, crumble, crying in the sheets
No more…. No more… No more please.
His psychedelic love,
Embraced, covered, infused me
Eliminating all toxicity
Fear escaped me,
For I was imprisoned by LOVE.
Revolt, Revolt, Revolt… I no longer scream.
Copyright (c) 2008 by (krd) SistaSistaSister
This thing is warring within me.
Alone forever, I thought, I wanted to be,
Tired of trying, being met with defeat.
Closed my mind, my heart, my eyes
To the possibility of any man loving me.
Then….He….
His is a psychedelic love
A kaleidoscope of fantasies
Acted out devoid of discreet are apology
His mystique tantalizes me
And when this brother speaks
The revolution starts in me.
Revolt, Revolt, Revolt… I scream
Don’t want to have these insecurities,
Of another man leaving me or me leaving he
So I disguise what I feel inside,
Not to be lifted up with hope or false pride.
Transformation has been, bitter-sweet,
A cyclone of pain and ecstasy
I tumble, crumble, crying in the sheets
No more…. No more… No more please.
His psychedelic love,
Embraced, covered, infused me
Eliminating all toxicity
Fear escaped me,
For I was imprisoned by LOVE.
Revolt, Revolt, Revolt… I no longer scream.
Copyright (c) 2008 by (krd) SistaSistaSister
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My Thought for the Day Copyright © 2010
Sometimes we stumble;
Sometimes faith is betrayed;
Sometimes the mistakes we make
are the stones it takes, to build a pathway to the person we will be. Remember we are ever becoming.
(January 08, 2010)
Wisdom is the prerequisite of perfecting love,
Truth is the prerequisite of revealed wisdom,
If there is no truth, there is no perfecting love.
Seek truth, wisdom and love will follow.
(January 10, 2010)
"When I fall, whether I be friend or foe, stretch forth, help me, dust me off, and send me on my way in love." Yes, Love... The action that surpasses all understanding... The force, that creates forgiveness, in the mist of derision. The virtue, that gives all fallen souls the ability to journey on... and to the sender (the forgiver who's been wronged) the ability to heal, and also grow on.
(January 11, 2010)
Every Today was once a Tomorrow,
Every Tomorrow will become Today…
What will you do Today, to influence your Tomorrow?
(January 18, 2010)
Turn down the thermostat! Stop expelling valuable energy! Winterize your heart! Insulate the warmth of your spirit, and conserve yourself (your being) for those who acknowledge your wroth.
(January 23, 2010)
My thought for today is a reflection of something my mother always said, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions, and well meaning people, who never got around to proving the thoughts of their heart". (February 6, 2010)
The grass always looks greener on the other side, but don’t climb the fence, the dog bites, the cat scratches, and the owner is a jack ass.
(February 7, 2010)
I would hate to wander through the desert of hope, hungry, only to find the fig tree barren.
(February 10, 2010)
What is adequate for one can be inadequate for another, time reveals what is. (February 17, 2010)
We are all more than we believe, if we merely believe.
(February 26, 2010)
To be unpredictable, for some is a challenge of intellect.
To be conventional, for some is deifying creativity.
To be absolutely unique, is a freedom we all seek, at various levels. (February 27, 2010)
We view photo's, we read blogs and status', we agree or disagree, we like or dislike, we study, examine and respond, based on our perceptions of what we believe is communicated and revealed, What you see is not always what you get.
There are times we should use our prudent minds, to take another look, there could be more than what meets the eye.
(March 7, 2010)
Things don't always End Well,
Yet its well they ended.
(March 17, 2010)
Women, we are always told, we talk to much, so men created Facebook, Texting & Twitter, to teach us to be direct and to the point. Please say it in 140 - 420 characters or less…
(March 18, 2010)
S H I N E !!! Even in your darkness shine.
Those who need your light will see it. S H I N E!!!
(March 20, 2010)
Selfishness will tax any relationship, and chronic selflessness taxes the individual.
(March 27, 2010)
Many of us read to locate, take note of, or memorize, that which has been taught unto us. Some of us study to gather information of that which is written, and has been taught unto us, with no intention of questioning its validity.
Others of us locate, take note of, memorize, gather information and are able to rightly divide the written and spoken word, which has been taught unto us, and there confirming or denying its validity. Wisdom is seeking beyond what is taught or understood, to affirm truth.
(March 29, 2010)
We are taught in childhood, not to question, our parents, our elders, and those deemed to have religious authority over us... We are not to lean to our own understandings, and if we find ourselves of another opinion, we are told it is the devil. Therefore withstanding our failure, our unwillingness, our fear to question, that which is questionable, we adhere to a belief passed down but never scrutinize by those we looked to for guidance. We pledge servitude to a belief we ourselves struggle to comprehend, and in so doing, we vaguely acknowledge the God-ness, the creative force within ourselves… (Greater is he that is within U than he that is in the world. (The world meaning, outside of U.)
(March 30, 2010)
Misery loves company, and hurt people hurt people. If folks fail to take the time needed to heal, they will always repeat the cycle of pain. I have found love means different things to different folks, so we must find our definition of love, and apply it as we await the arrival of that mate, whom shares the same definition of love as ourselves.
“Can two walk together, except they agree" Amos 3:3
(March 31, 2010)
Normal isn't fun....
Sanity has no adventure... and when U go crazy,
there are no valid excuses... I'm staying crazy...
(April 24, 2010)
Not every Hello is permanent,
and not every Goodbye forever...
time is the common denominator.
(April 29, 2010)
Allergies are like sucker punches,
there aren't any warnings,
and you're never prepared....
(May 3, 2010)
There must be balance… as you will learn;
your success is no more superior than your greatest failure.
(May 4, 2010)
Reggie Arnold THOUGHT: you have to love some people from a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng distance. Help yourself before you extend too far, there may not be enough rope left..
(May 8, 2010)
God always places the answer within us...
We must be still enough to hear, and wise enough to listen....
(May 18, 2010)
soap & water don't make U clean..
it just makes U washed...
so watch U'r deeds...
(May 27, 2010)
Love at first, second or third sight is possible.
For U determine the love u will give...
U determine the barriers or limitations U will set.
We don't love because we think others will love us,
We love because we so desire to do so,
Despite whether we are loved in return.
Love at first sight simply means I choose to love this person despite their willingness or lack thereof to love me back...
I will love without seeking a return...
I Love u because I can.
(June 28, 2010)
All Life's lessons can't be learned in a day,
so slow down and pace yourself,
it's not that kind of race. ~Sista
(July 27, 2010)
It would seems at some point we should graduate
from believing to knowing...
Are U ready for your cap and gown?
(July 27, 2010)
Wine is a necessity... for relaxing conversation... :)
(July 29, 2010)
One should not work to maintain faith,
If you’re working, you are working in fear,
For faith and knowing, just is.
Copyright © Kim Daniel
(July 30, 2010)
If you’re giving to get,
You’re not giving, you’re lending.
(August 10, 2010)
Baby stepping to my forward motion....
Hope the train don't leave the station fo' I get there...
(August 18, 2010)
One of the most amazing encounters is watching my thoughts manifest before my eyes...
I am grateful
(September 3, 2010)
Rummaging through the closets of my memory, I found U.
Just like old times, we laughed and smile, and joke for awhile, then the phone rang, and guest what, it was U... (September 29, 2010)
Wisdom can sometimes look crazy, and looks can sometimes be deceiving. (October 22, 2010)