Tuesday, June 29, 2010

The Middle Finger…

I am of the opinion that giving the middle finger is just as ugly as the ‘B’ Word…
Yet with eyes cut, necks rolled, and a pivoting turn on the left hip young women flash this limb as if it’s a badge of honor. Unfortunately young folks don’t seem to realize how unattractive it is, especially when followed by a plethora of foul distasteful words.…
Now days, the middle appendage of either hand seems to be the new Hello, or perhaps the movement of a rebellious generation, flipping off the world, whichever it is, it’s UGLY!

Monday, June 28, 2010

Q: Is there love @ first sight?

Love at first, second or third sight is possible.
For U determine the love u will give...
U determine the barriers or limitations U will set.
We don't love because we think others will love us,
We love because we so desire to do so, despite whether we are loved in return.
Love at first sight simply means I choose to love this person despite there willingness or lack thereof to love me back...
I will love without seeking a return... I Love u because I can.

Friday, June 18, 2010

.. Did U get the MEMO.....

Due to the recession, we find it harder to give,
but I ask U all to dig real deep, for there is an emergency.
We are all counting our wants against our needs,
but I am hard pressed to remember it is better to give than receive,
...so please do not hold back, the gift U give could make a great impact.
SMILE It’s free….
PS.
If they don’t smile back, they didn’t receive this memo.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

U better not never tell nobody.

“U better not never tell nobody but God”,
Pa says to Celie in the “Color Purple" by Alice Walker…

There are some tragedies so great,
some hurts so painful,
some mistakes so unspeakable that U fear NO-One will ever understand.
However if U search the quietness of U’r heart,
the stillness of U’r mind, the depts of U’r soul,
U’ll know GOD will

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

“I Ain’t MY HAIR”....

To wake up with no hair to comb would be great,
and not recall how it happen would be even better...
So When I say, "I don't know", I would not be lying...
I'm starting to think hair is over rated...
Dreads might be nice, but the starting process is to messy;
Perms, Relaxers, & Texturizers are far too much work,
with the bi-weekly to monthly trips to the shop, for up keep.
Bald is cool, but looks best on thinner women,
Boy cuts are good, but they still require too much maintenance...
I just want ...Wash and wear... Wash and wear...
Less Hair would cut down on bathroom time, bobby pens, hair clips, and all the other assortment of things we do to be publicly acceptable...
If folks understood what it takes, just to put my hair in a ponytail…uhmm
I run through more brushes than the law allows, due to the length and thickness,
I can’t get anyone to do my hair for less than 75 dollars…
Then it never stays… It’s been three years are better without a relaxer.
Each morning I wake looking like
"Buck-Wheat!!!!" ( :OOOOtaaaay ..LOL)
I need to play that “India Arie” cut and make it my anthem,
“I AM NOT MY HAIR”....

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

It’s your position which determines the view of your horizon;
It’s your standing point which determines the clarity of your sight;
Partial vision yields partial truth…
You will never understand the whole of the matter if you never adjust your point of view.
(It’s on the horizon, can U see it: Truth, Understanding, & Wisdom)
SistaSistaSister.blogspot.com

Monday, June 7, 2010

Love Aint Stingy... and
Stingy Aint Love... they're just neighbors,
on opposite ends of the same street.
Sista Quote

Sunday, June 6, 2010

“The Devil is Busy”

“The Devil is Busy”, one exclaims.
Who is this evil one, who conspires to make your life so miserable?
Who is this devilish fiend burdening you with calamities?
Who has orchestrated such tragedies’?
Could the evil one be “Thee”?
Your catastrophe, heartbreak, & misfortune,
could it be your failures to take heed,
your lack of preparation for a particular destination,
your down right laziness, your desire to control without the tools to lead.
Could it be, your mishaps, collapse, disappointment, crash, & lack of success,
are a result of your procrastination, deficiency of education,
and untimely need to jump without the required harnesses & safety nets of life?
Stop and think, what is your responsibility, so when U come to me, you will no longer exclaim. “The Devil is Busy”…
Copyright 2010 by KRD aka SistaSistaSister

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Love...from the core to the skin...
Not the skin to the core...
it's safer and a lot more real.

My Thought for the Day Copyright © 2010


Sometimes we stumble;
Sometimes faith is betrayed;
Sometimes the mistakes we make
are the stones it takes, to build a pathway to the person we will be. Remember we are ever becoming.
(January 08, 2010)

Wisdom is the prerequisite of perfecting love,
Truth is the prerequisite of revealed wisdom,
If there is no truth, there is no perfecting love.
Seek truth, wisdom and love will follow.
(January 10, 2010)

"When I fall, whether I be friend or foe, stretch forth, help me, dust me off, and send me on my way in love." Yes, Love... The action that surpasses all understanding... The force, that creates forgiveness, in the mist of derision. The virtue, that gives all fallen souls the ability to journey on... and to the sender (the forgiver who's been wronged) the ability to heal, and also grow on.
(January 11, 2010)

Every Today was once a Tomorrow,
Every Tomorrow will become Today…
What will you do Today, to influence your Tomorrow?
(January 18, 2010)

Turn down the thermostat! Stop expelling valuable energy! Winterize your heart! Insulate the warmth of your spirit, and conserve yourself (your being) for those who acknowledge your wroth.
(January 23, 2010)

My thought for today is a reflection of something my mother always said, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions, and well meaning people, who never got around to proving the thoughts of their heart". (February 6, 2010)

The grass always looks greener on the other side, but don’t climb the fence, the dog bites, the cat scratches, and the owner is a jack ass.
(February 7, 2010)

I would hate to wander through the desert of hope, hungry, only to find the fig tree barren.
(February 10, 2010)

What is adequate for one can be inadequate for another, time reveals what is. (February 17, 2010)

We are all more than we believe, if we merely believe.
(February 26, 2010)

To be unpredictable, for some is a challenge of intellect.
To be conventional, for some is deifying creativity.
To be absolutely unique, is a freedom we all seek, at various levels. (February 27, 2010)

We view photo's, we read blogs and status', we agree or disagree, we like or dislike, we study, examine and respond, based on our perceptions of what we believe is communicated and revealed, What you see is not always what you get.
There are times we should use our prudent minds, to take another look, there could be more than what meets the eye.
(March 7, 2010)

Things don't always End Well,
Yet its well they ended.
(March 17, 2010)

Women, we are always told, we talk to much, so men created Facebook, Texting & Twitter, to teach us to be direct and to the point. Please say it in 140 - 420 characters or less…
(March 18, 2010)

S H I N E !!! Even in your darkness shine.
Those who need your light will see it. S H I N E!!!
(March 20, 2010)

Selfishness will tax any relationship, and chronic selflessness taxes the individual.
(March 27, 2010)

Many of us read to locate, take note of, or memorize, that which has been taught unto us. Some of us study to gather information of that which is written, and has been taught unto us, with no intention of questioning its validity.
Others of us locate, take note of, memorize, gather information and are able to rightly divide the written and spoken word, which has been taught unto us, and there confirming or denying its validity. Wisdom is seeking beyond what is taught or understood, to affirm truth.
(March 29, 2010)

We are taught in childhood, not to question, our parents, our elders, and those deemed to have religious authority over us... We are not to lean to our own understandings, and if we find ourselves of another opinion, we are told it is the devil. Therefore withstanding our failure, our unwillingness, our fear to question, that which is questionable, we adhere to a belief passed down but never scrutinize by those we looked to for guidance. We pledge servitude to a belief we ourselves struggle to comprehend, and in so doing, we vaguely acknowledge the God-ness, the creative force within ourselves… (Greater is he that is within U than he that is in the world. (The world meaning, outside of U.)
(March 30, 2010)

Misery loves company, and hurt people hurt people. If folks fail to take the time needed to heal, they will always repeat the cycle of pain. I have found love means different things to different folks, so we must find our definition of love, and apply it as we await the arrival of that mate, whom shares the same definition of love as ourselves.
“Can two walk together, except they agree" Amos 3:3
(March 31, 2010)

Normal isn't fun....
Sanity has no adventure... and when U go crazy,
there are no valid excuses... I'm staying crazy...
(April 24, 2010)

Not every Hello is permanent,
and not every Goodbye forever...
time is the common denominator.
(April 29, 2010)

Allergies are like sucker punches,
there aren't any warnings,
and you're never prepared....
(May 3, 2010)

There must be balance… as you will learn;
your success is no more superior than your greatest failure.
(May 4, 2010)

Reggie Arnold THOUGHT: you have to love some people from a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng distance. Help yourself before you extend too far, there may not be enough rope left..
(May 8, 2010)

God always places the answer within us...
We must be still enough to hear, and wise enough to listen....
(May 18, 2010)

soap & water don't make U clean..
it just makes U washed...
so watch U'r deeds...
(May 27, 2010)

Love at first, second or third sight is possible.
For U determine the love u will give...
U determine the barriers or limitations U will set.
We don't love because we think others will love us,
We love because we so desire to do so,
Despite whether we are loved in return.
Love at first sight simply means I choose to love this person despite their willingness or lack thereof to love me back...
I will love without seeking a return...
I Love u because I can.
(June 28, 2010)

All Life's lessons can't be learned in a day,
so slow down and pace yourself,
it's not that kind of race. ~Sista
(July 27, 2010)

It would seems at some point we should graduate
from believing to knowing...
Are U ready for your cap and gown?
(July 27, 2010)

Wine is a necessity... for relaxing conversation... :)
(July 29, 2010)

One should not work to maintain faith,
If you’re working, you are working in fear,
For faith and knowing, just is.
Copyright © Kim Daniel
(July 30, 2010)

If you’re giving to get,
You’re not giving, you’re lending.
(August 10, 2010)

Baby stepping to my forward motion....
Hope the train don't leave the station fo' I get there...
(August 18, 2010)

One of the most amazing encounters is watching my thoughts manifest before my eyes...
I am grateful
(September 3, 2010)

Rummaging through the closets of my memory, I found U.
Just like old times, we laughed and smile, and joke for awhile, then the phone rang, and guest what, it was U... (September 29, 2010)

Wisdom can sometimes look crazy, and looks can sometimes be deceiving. (October 22, 2010)
resolve to LOVE Unconditionally

Living In A Stream Of Possibilities